Child Abuse: Toddler sang hate song in church and is applauded

Just take 2 minutes of your life to watch this video

I know it might be impossible for some people
to make out what the kiddo is singing
so I'm going to quote the lyrics here.

I know the Bible’s right, somebody’s wrong

I know the Bible’s right, somebody’s wrong

Aint no homos going to make it to heaven

 As you watch the video,

you should notice that the audience applauded for the child.

Now I'm wondering,

is THIS what the Christians are teaching in our modern society?

is a kid singing about gays not being able to go to heaven a great thing?

Shouldn't the church be teaching KINDNESS AND LOVE?!

Shouldn't the church be teaching RESPECT EACH OTHER'S DIFFERENCES?!

They say that gay parents SHOULD NOT adopt children,

because it is NOT a healthy lifestyle,

and it will turn the children gay.

However,

how about THIS lifestyle?

Is THIS what YOU call a healthy lifestyle?

Is THIS what YOU call Christianity?

Is THIS what YOU call a perfect family?!

Meanwhile,

gays are brought up by straight parents,

and I don't see YOU complaining,

and they turn out totally fine!

I have to admit,

I'm in rage for what the adults are teaching the young minds,

(Of course, why not?!),

THIS is why bullying cases are increasing,

because YOU are teaching innocent minds about hatred.

Not Kind,

Not Respect,

Not Love,

but hatred...

I pity the children who have to be taught negativity instead of positivity.

*****

Latest news
The church that encouraged this is on a lockdown.

GREENSBURG, Ind. — An Indiana church is on lock down and its pastor has left for an undisclosed location after a video recording surfaced this week of a toddler singing an anti-gay song at the church altar, that included the lyrics, “Ain’t no homo going to make it to heaven.”

He is capable of spreading such thoughts and he is so proud of himself,
and yet when he's faced by people of the LGBT,
he chose to run away.
Not to mention that his church is on a lock down.

This shows how much of a coward he is,
and how injustice his teachings are.

If you truly believe in your beliefs,
you will not run away from it,
but stand up for it,
because once you have an opening for people to attack,
your beliefs are just mere ashes. 

Bullying: Society can change

It's a simple message for everyone.

It is said that our world is developing into a brighter future,

it is said that our life is all about making a better tomorrow,

it is said that earth is a beautiful planet,

it is said that we are all important.

However,

despite the world developing into a brighter tomorrow,

there is a huge gap between society and our developments.

Bullying has became a major controversy,

and it is worsening by the second.

People complain about society problems,

but they just sit around reasoning it's human nature.

What is the issue here?

Is it because it is human nature?

Or is it because of people's neglectful attitude? 

Being strong physically does not make you a man
However, being strong standing up for someone makes you
human

In fact,

the people who complain and reasoning it is human nature

are the problems in our society.

Because they think it is normal to have bullies everywhere,

despite the bullying cases worsening by the second.

And so they do not put in any effort at all,

they just do not care.

Now,

this is not about ranting people who do not give a damn,

but to aware that the society can be changed.

Women did not have as many rights as they used to,

black were terribly treated

and atheism can lead you to death punishment.

Moreover, homosexuality used to be known as a "disease"

Despite all those commotion over the period of time,

women are standing equally with men 

and are at times more capable than men.

Covering yourself with make-up and making yourself look beautiful
does not make you a girl.
Showing your true self makes you
human.

There are no seats where it is limited for either whites or blacks now
Both of them can enjoy each other's company.
Atheists are able to voice their opinions without getting bashed at,
and the thought of homosexuality as a "disease" is slowly fading into history.

So,
it IS possible to change the society,
it IS possible to have a better tomorrow.

However,
it just depends on your own mindset
and if you have  the courage to stand up for someone
and help them out,
people who are bullied and bullies themselves.

Hopefully in the future...
Children will be able to attend classes without being afraid.

Blue was supposed to be for boysPink was supposed to be for girls
But why care about what colours are deserved for each person,

instead, care for each person for who they are.
(Red and blue makes purple ^__^)

6 years committed relationship; boyfriend suicides

A video of two lovers who were separated even though they were committed to each other for 6 years.

I am not going to be bias here,
but most relationships do not even last this long.
They were waiting for gay marriage to be legalized after
one of them, Tom was rejected by his parents.

His father threatened to shoot him,
and his mother told him that being gay is a sin.
Moreover, they told Tom that if only he came out when he was young,
he could have been brought to a medical institute.

However,
in 1973, it was already proven that there is no evidence that
homosexuality is a mental disorder,
and as posted before,
the bible never opposed same-sex relationships.

Furthermore,
the potential risks of therapy are great as said in this post.
It can even cause depression, anxiety and self-destructive behaviour.

It's already known since long ago that therapy does not change sexuality,
nor electric chair, nor any medication at all.
Yet, people are still having the same old fashion thinking
that it actually works!

I do not understand what the parents are thinking (yes, I REALLY DO NOT understand),
allowing their children to receive so much pain,
seriously, electric chair?
They have already opened up their deepest innermost secret,
afraid of being kicked out, afraid of being alienated by society
and yet they're thrown into medication because of your prejudice thinking
and little knowledge about the bible.

Zimbabwe's President: Same-sex marriage leads to human extinction

The first impression when I read this post made me realize
how ridiculous the world can be.

As the title announces itself,
it mentioned that same-sex marriage can lead to human extinction.

After earlier remarks by UN human rights chief Navi Pillay referring to the criminalization of homosexuality in some countries, Mugabe said Zimbabwe and Africa won't recognize same-sex marriage because it leads to human "extinction."
He said male homosexuality took away women's traditional rights of being mothers.

How is it possible for same-sex marriage to lead to extinction?
There are homosexuality existing in OVER 1500 species,
and yet, they did not extinct because of homosexuality,
they extinct because of human's stupidity and ignorance.

Now, it is obvious that with the statement made,
it is giving out the message that being gay is a choice or they recognize bisexuality,
because it is impossible for the majority of the human population to be gay.

If that was the case, then since long ago,
humans would have extinct because based on history of
different countries, such as China, Japan, England etc.
You can find out that homosexuality existed since ancient times,
and in some countries, it was/is a culture.
And yet, our generation keeps on going non-stop!

And if the statement is to imply that homosexuality is spreadable,
then my parents and friends would have turned gay while I was closeted,
wouldn't it?

What I've read from the article is that
if same-sex marriage is legalized,
then gay men will take away women's rights.
(And yes, women do have disadvantage in Zimbabwe)
because "mothers were given the talent to bear children and that talent doesn't belong to men"

However, from my perspective, is it a talent that is given?
Or was it a punishment for listening to a talking serpent
who told Eve to eat the red apple from the apple tree,
even though told not to by God?

When God created Adam ... if Adam had desired a person like him it would not have made him any happier," Mugabe said.

It is said that
"if's" cannot be used in history,
it is not a science subject,
but a history subject.
and it cannot be proven because it is a past event,
and it cannot be repeated.

Furthermore, Adam DID NOT desire for a women OR a man,
God, instead made Eve FOR Adam as a partner.

It is the thought that "women are made to bear children",
that causes sex discrimination.
Women are not sex machines or birth machines,
they feel pain when bearing children,
and not to mention periods and etc.

If you, president of Zimbabwe complain that
currently, women have less rights in the society
and the ONLY THING you can do is to acknowledge
that women have the gift of bearing child,
and their rights are taken away by gay men,
why not save the time of your speech and give women the rights
that they are expected to receive?

‘Cancel homosexual superheroes immediately,’ says ‘One Million’ Moms

Earlier this week, I made a post regarding Marvel Comics wanting to make one of their character gay, and that character turned out to be North Star, who will be in a same-sex wedding with his boyfriend, Kyle.

The response from an anti-gay group, called "One Million Moms" (The facebook page was probably removed due to violations, and is now starting another fanpage which only has 12 supporters), were shocked by the announcement made.

Last year, DC Comics Co-publisher Dan DiDio said that the company would not change the sexual orientation of an existing superhero and would bring in a new one altogether. "Parents may have been able to avoid a new character since it would not be one many children have grown to admire.  

(From Paragraph 2: One Million Mom's Response)

As you can see, in my earlier post, it is mentioned that if a new character was created
JUST for the sake of him/her being gay, then they can just boycott that character altogether.
If that happens, then what is the effort in making a new character and spreading equality?

Children desire to be just like superheroes. Children mimic superhero actions and even dress up in costumes to resemble these characters as much as possible. Can you imagine little boys saying, "I want a boyfriend or husband like X-Men?" 

This is ridiculous! Why do adult gay men need comic superheroes as role models? They don't but do want to indoctrinate impressionable young minds by placing these gay characters on pedestals in a positive light. These companies are heavily influencing our youth by using children's superheroes to desensitize and brainwash them in thinking that a gay lifestyle choice is normal and desirable. As Christians, we know that homosexuality is a sin (Romans 1:26-27).

Unfortunately, children are now being exposed to homosexuality at an early age. Comic books would be one of the last places a parent would expect their child to be confronted with homosexual topics that are too complicated for them to understand. Children do not know what straight, homosexual, or coming out of the closet even means, but DC Comics and Marvel are using superheroes to confuse them on this topic to raise questions and awareness of an alternative lifestyle choice. These companies are prompting a premature discussion on sexual orientation. 

[From Part 2 (Paragraph 3): One Million Mom's Response]  

 " This is ridiculous! Why do adult gay men need comic superheroes as role models? They don't but do want to indoctrinate impressionable young minds by placing these gay characters on pedestals in a positive light. These companies are heavily influencing our youth by using children's superheroes to desensitize and brainwash them in thinking that a gay lifestyle choice is normal and desirable."

It is not gay men that needs superheroes as role models.
It's people who are prejudice, people who are homophobic, people who always stereotype,
that needs role models to bring them into the "light".


Besides that, it's BECAUSE the companies are heavily influencing the youth,
that is why they're making a stand and supporting the gay community.
And a gay lifestyle IS normal.
Are you going to tell me that a relationship between a straight couple
who are arguing each day is normal?
Are you going to say that a straight couple who do not love each other any more but are together for the sake of their children is normal?


Also, gay relationships aren't desirable at all,
WHO wants to be discriminated every second?
WHO wants to be bullied by prejudices?
WHO wants to come out openly gay in fear of being kicked out of the house?
Or in fear of having their parents not loving them any more?
Or alienated by society
Or going to a coffee shop that says "Sorry, I don't welcome gay customers."


NO ONE!


It's really hilarious when I read this,

"As Christians, we know that homosexuality is a sin (Romans 1:26-27)".

Majority of the Christians just mindlessly follow what is taught in church and do not even make researches themselves. In my previous post, the 7 verses usually used by Christians who oppose same-sex relationships are explained by a woman who has done research and translation from the original language of the bible.

Other than that, here are a few points I would like to make.

"Comic books would be one of the last places a parent would expect their child to be confronted with homosexual topics that are too complicated for them to understand." 


WHAT is so hard to explain about homosexuality?
It's as easy to explain to a child about heterosexuality.
It's just love but with the same gender, that is all!
I don't see what the big fuss is about,
the whole topic discusses that it's hard to explain to a child about homosexuality.
In fact it's the parents' own intelligence that is playing a role here,
I guess for SOME PEOPLE it's just SO HARD to explain simple things!


"Children do not know what straight, homosexual, or coming out of the closet even means, but DC Comics and Marvel are using superheroes to confuse them on this topic to raise questions and awareness of an alternative lifestyle choice."

Children DO NOT know LOTS of things,
(Cigarettes and drugs for example)but I don't see parents complaining.
It's the parents role to guide their children to positive thinking.
Straight: love between a male and a female
Homosexual: love between a male and a male/ a female and a female
Coming Out of the closet: Revealing that you're gay because the society do not accept homosexuality because they just won't try to to understand

Isn't raising awareness a good thing?
Lots of people do not know that teenagers who are gay are bullied and chose to suicide instead,
Lots of people do not know that people have to struggle each day for people's acceptance!
Lots of people do not know that there are a lot of gays and lesbians around us!
it is YOUR JOB, as a parent to tell them not to bully and to accept each other's differences!

"These companies are prompting a premature discussion on sexual orientation." 

I get the point, because there is NOTHING to discuss about heterosexuality,
there is NOTHING to discuss about straight couples divorcing,
and there is NOTHING to discuss about why the straight couples are kissing!
But there is A LOT to discuss about two men/women who are in love!

Christianity: Is homosexuality a sin? 同性恋是罪吗？

So is homosexuality a sin?

Here are the 7 verses that people usually use against gays and lesbians,
I've typed out what is said in the video for those who are lazy to watch, however,
please watch the end where she mentioned Jesus confronting with the Roman stentorian.

Adam and Eve (Genesis 2)
"It's not Adam and Steve, it's Adam and Eve"
(is what you'll usually hear when people are opposing gay rights)
God created Eve FOR Adam,
he DIDN'T SAY ALL MEN SHOULD HAVE A WOMAN.

Sodem and Gomorrah (Genesis 19)
Homosexual acts that caused the city to destroy
were acts of violence and rape,
not same-sex relationships

Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman, it's detestable (/an abomination) (Leviticus 18:22)
The original word for the words "detestable and abomination" which were translated
originally meant "do not use sex in temple cul-tic practices, THAT is an abomination to God"
Back then, people were going to the temple and having sex with temple prostitutes,
whether it be male dressed as female or male dressed as male.
And not same sex relationships.

No Israelite man or woman is to become a shrine prostitute (Deuteronomy 23:17)
Understand who it is referring to, and based on the original language,
 it is about idolatrous sex in temple worship.

For this caused God to gave them up into vile affections:
for even their women did not change the natural use into that which is against nature:
and likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another
(Romans: 1:26-27)
God is talking to people that are idolater.

"Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders not thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers will inherit the kingdom of God"
(1 Corinthians 6:9-10)
Until around 1950's, all the words "the effeminate, the soft, the perverts, the male prostitutes" somehow in the 50's all became homosexual. So if you read the bible in the 1900's, it didn't use "homosexual"

"The law is for people who are sexually immoral, or who practice homosexuality , or are slave traders, liars, promise breakers, or who do anything else that contradicts the wholesome teaching that comes from the glorious Good News entrusted to me by our Blessed God" (Timothy 1:10-11)
There are two words in the original language that were translated as "homosexual",
the actual meaning is effeminate or soft people.

So did Jesus ever talk about homosexuality? 
Jesus was confronted with same sex relationships in the bible when the Roman stentorian came and said to Jesus "will you heal my pias (male sex servant, who he was having a relationship with) for me?"
Jesus DID NOT tell them to go home and clean up the sexual relationships and when they come back and they're straight, he'll deal with them.
Instead, Jesus told him that he IS healed and he can go home.
He did  not deny their relationship.

7-Year-Old Commits Suicide. Enough is enough!

Enough is enough!
It's already sad when teenagers suicide when they have bright futures lying ahead of them.
In fact, it's sad if any suicides occur.
However, to have a 7-year-old suicide because of bullying...
It's tragic.

After reading this news, it saddened me a lot.
Bullying has gone to a whole new level again.
7-year old bullied JUST BECAUSE he's the only male of a family of 8,
not to mention in addition to his father's separation...


Does living in a family full of women mean anything?!
Does living with two female parents mean anything?!
Does living with parents of different races mean anything?!
Does all that affect your growth: Spiritually, mentally, and etc.?

Simple answer:
No.
Then what affects your children's behaviour and growth?

What is TAUGHT in the family affects your children's development.
YOU are your children's role model,
YOU have the responsibility of teaching them to be loving and kind,
as you did to your lover,
not spreading hatred just because you're opposing against people's thoughts.

Well, back to bullying,
What does this all mean?
Is our society progressing at a positive or a negative rate?
What are parents teaching their children,
and what are children thinking in their mind?

Shouldn't children be taught kindness and compassion?
Shouldn't children be taught about love?
Instead, they start bullying at the age of 7..
How pathetic can this world become?

Imagine how many children are there in this world,
even if it's 1 in a million,
it's already too much.
The suffering of parents losing a child..

Even I find it heart-breaking. 

Here is a 15 minute video of Ellen talking about bullying (different story from the one above).

Here's one thing I want to point out about the video.

Even after the bullied kid suicide, 
the bullies still remained the same,
they still continued their usual lives.

Short message from Ellen.

This is a wake-up call,
if bullying isn't controlled now,
what'll happen in the future
of our next generations?

My last few words (-cough-):
People can take out signs and everything in the bible to attack the gay and the lesbian community (bisexuals and transsexuals included),
but they won't take a stand and do it for bullying.
I've never seen people in a group holding signs and shouting "no bullying". 

I've never heard people making fun of bullies, through facebook especially.

And you know what it means..

Most religion (I'm not going to generalize) teach their children that being gay is a sin.
Most religion teach their children things before even understanding and researching themselves.
Most religion do not put a penalty on being a bully as much as being gay.

For all the Christians out there who say that being Gay is a sin,
my next post will be a post about a woman who researched deeply about the meaning behind the 7 versus that people think directs to homosexuality as being sinful.

Gay Superhero

I've been reading a lot of comments about this photo. I guess it is to be expected but I just don't feel like shutting up about it.

There are posts where you can see "why don't they just create another character who's gay?"
Or "my childhood is ruined!"
[oh c'mon, stop quoting other people and come up with a better line..]

In my belief,
maybe there are cons as well but that ONLY DEPENDS ON THE READER,
maybe it does ruin the image you've always believed them to be.
However, what does making them gay affect anything?
It's not like they're going to be sunflower costumed elves or anything.
Just like real life, does telling you "I'm gay" is going to change anything?
I'm who I am since the first time I met you, and I still am the same person.

In addition,
this is a comic, the writer should be able to express whatever he wants.
In a way, maybe he does write comics for people for their entertainment,
but he should be able to express what HE wants.

They're still the same super heroes anyways,
of course I'm in no right position to predict how the storyline goes,
since it's another person's work.

Now,
let's look at the gay community's view of point (more like mine),
For the minority,
it's helping the society to understand that gays and lesbians cannot be stereotyped.
We can be buffed up, beautiful, masculine and feminine, and it has nothing to do with sexuality at all.

Instead,
If a character was created JUST FOR THE SAKE OF MAKING HIM GAY,
you'll see the end results of that.

People will start to call him sunshine man
and if it's a female heroine, she'll be Sadist woman
and laugh at people who are struggling through life just for YOUR acceptance.
Not to mention, boycotting the character entirely.

Speaking of which,
there are two famous actors in the media who're gay,
well, lots more, but I don't wanna make a full list of it.
and I'm wondering if people are fussing over them.

Hmm...
"SUITE UP!"
What does that remind you of?

Neil Patrick Harris (Barney on How I met you mother?). Happily married and has 2 children :)

 And..
Zachary Quinto (From Heroes)

Ellen's Coming Out episode

The episode where Ellen finally came out to the media that she's gay.
This episode is very meaningful as it contains some of the issues faced by gays.
Like being treated differently from others.
You see, during the morning,
We drink coffee, not gay coffee.
We drive our cars around, not gay cars.
We eat burgers, not gay burgers.

Well,
really happy for Ellen :)  <3
Love her!

Stereotyping.

When the word "Gay" pops up,
what goes on in your mind?
Two guys holding hands, two girls holding hand?
Or a guy who's feminine, all nicely dressed
and a girl who has really short hair with a tomboy act?

The mass media has portrayed gays as feminine elves
and lesbians as tomboy gangsters, and I know a lot of people know that,
but they don't even bother asking or thinking "are gays and lesbians REALLY like that?"
Or "are ALL lesbians and gays like that"?
Instead they treat them as a main target of bullying,
pointing fingers and laughing just because someone is different than them.

It's odd that hatred and prejudice thinking can spread so vastly,
and instead kindness and compassion just can't seem to seep its way into the society.
What if your child was gay or lesbian?
Or maybe you're gay as well but you're in denial and you're hurting others?

What if you have children who heard you making fun of gays and lesbians just because they're slightly different?
What if you found them starting to ignore you,
turning away from you and crying every single night just for YOUR approval?!
What if they have suicidal thoughts every single day,
and can't take it any more?!

If being gay and lesbian is treatable,
if being gay and lesbian is abnormal,
if being gay and lesbian is against the bible, of what God says,
if being gay and lesbian is a choice...

Then,
Why are there children taking the path of suicide?!
Why are there marriages torn apart because the husband is gay or the wife is lesbian?!
Why are there people who were sent to psychologists, electrified and "treated" but coming out still the same?!
Why IS gay coupling found in over 1500 species and HOMOPHOBIA in ONLY ONE?!

If you are going to say that it's because they're ANIMALS
because animals are stupid,
then how about us?
Gays and lesbians exist in both civilized and uncivilized societies,
and you don't see the animals complaining.

By the way,
here's a tip for you,
free tip :)

God makes the judgements,
not you.
You, have NO RIGHTS to judge other people's differences
and your religion is not everyone else's religion.

It is okay if you're gay ... Stop Bullying Now!

I've wanted to do this since a long time ago
and recently, some of my friends gave me support to finally initiate this.
No matter if I am alienated from reality, my friends, I know I still have the ones who support me, by my side.
and hopefully, I am able to continue this blog
and most likely I will.


Most homophobes are prejudice,
they don't understand the situation of the gay community.
It feels like hell every single day when a random person shouts out "It's so gay!",
"This is so gay" or even "Eww, you're gay."
What if you did something ridiculous and I substituted your name for "gay"?
The feeling of being alienated, to be categorized as a group, an abnormal species,
would you understand that feeling?
Not to mention there are kids, and teenagers (adults even) bullied just because of their sexuality, bullied to the point their final decision: suicide.

Now tell me,
will YOU be happy when you bullied someone to the peak of the cliff for him/her to suicide?!
Will YOU be happy when he/she looks down and away, hoping this will end?!
Will YOU be happy, looking at parents losing their lovable children?! 
Does sexuality really determine a person's personality that much?
Science, since long ago, has proven that it's not due to mental disorder that caused people to be gay.
Yet, people still treat it like a disorder and kept on alienating them.


Well,
when some of us open out and come out of the closet (revealing ourselves as gays)
some of us are kicked out of our home, for example,
a famous celebrity, Ellen Degeneres.
She was kicked out of her house after revealing that she's a lesbian.
Her father did not want her to "influence" his 2 other children, Ellen's sisters.
Here's the thing, if gays can "influence" other people to become gay,
then shouldn't straight be able to "influence" gays to turn into straights?
At any rate,
Look at Ellen now! Successful, loving, caring, kind and happily married to her wife, Portia. Ellen Degeneres,  a definitely inspirational person.

So,
How about those who never came out of the closet?
Some stay alone forever, in fear of being alienated or hated and
What's worse is that some of us pretend to be straight and married people we don't even like due to the pressure by family.
Most of these weddings turned out horrible and who are the people that's dragged into the problem? The children.


I have so much to type in this blog, my feelings of being one of the gay community, and feelings standing in the shoes of others.


To me, Gay, straight, transexual, bisexual, white, black, brown, whatever, it doesn't matter. As long as we get to live in harmony, that's all that matters and that's all that I wish for.