MoralStudiesClass -Lecturer who hates Gays.

It's been quite a while since I've updated this blog but since there are lots of things going around in my mind right now, I can't help but to pour it all out.

In Malaysia, it is compulsory for students to take Moral Studies as one of the subjects in their courses. Moral studies is the study of morals, philosophy and what not. At first, during the first week of moral studies, we got to choose our presentation topic and surprisingly there were two topics that caught my eye - Homosexuality (if we are for or against) and Gay Marriage (if we are for or against). Immediately  we picked "Homosexuality"

The few weeks before our presentation, I was stressed up and worried if the presentation will be a success or not. The lecturer kept on saying that "Homosexuality is wrong" even though he did not want to touch the topic in the first place!

Here is a picture just in case if you're bored. 

Later on, during one of his classes, the air-conditioner broke down and it just so happen that I walked out of his class. During that period of time, my friends told me that he told the whole class that gays should be thrown onto an island. My friend defended for the gays and claimed that they are born that way but the lecturer made the most insulting remark ever, "So if I'm transsexual, I can be gay then~" with his perverted old voice while "acting" feminine (it's idiotic, not feminine the least since it offences women as well in my opinion).

I was outraged and it made me want to perfect my presentation even more! I have to thank a lot to my friend for helping me in my presentation as she made it successful, however, after our presentation was done... Our lecturer kept on defying us! He mentioned that "If you believe in God, you'll say that homosexuality is wrong! For no reason at all, he started to make hypothesis about the future of mankind if homosexuality was al-right!

During the presentation, I finally thought I voiced out to some people and caught their attention but because of his remarks, it just made things worse! Isn't a lecturer supposed to keep his ideas to himself at times like this? ESPECIALLY when it mentions "if we are for or against"?! His face was full of anger and stress during our presentation as well. I seriously don't care if he voiced his opinion but he's raising a generation of young minds here! 

Not to mention that it did not only made our presentation seem horrible and wrong but he implemented some other ideas into everyone's minds -everyone might be gay in the future if we allow this culture! But the issue is, they say that gays can influence other people to become gay as well, but why can't straight people influence gays to become straight?! For all I know, I was raised in a heterosexual family, I have heterosexual friends, I'm practically surrounded by heterosexuals but I'm homosexual! I don't see his idea as a support for his statement at all!

Another picture just in case you're bored. 

A few weeks later during class,my friend came up with a question to hit the lecturer, "So what if a killer asked you where your child was and he wanted to kill your child?" The lecturer replied, "Then just tell him where your child is and pray for his safety." At first I thought he was joking but oh no, he was so damned serious, his face showed it all. While this happened in our class, in another class taught by another lecturer, she did not make any remark at all when the students agreed that homosexuality is al-right!

Anyways, this is what went on in our class for Moral Studies Class. It's a really stressful class for me, especially since I'm living in a country that believes that "non-religious people are immoral". I'm an atheist and I don't kill people, nor do I try to harm other people.

To conclude, I want to move out of this country asap as this has kept me awake for a lot of  nights now. P.S for some reason he likes to use homosexuals as an example, not bullying, nor genocide, nothing else.

Feminism and transgenders

Men should be strong,

Men should be masculine,

Men should work,

Men should be brave.

Women should be elegant,

Women should wear dresses,

Women should be gentle,

Women should know their manners.

These are the statements that pressurizes people 

and make them uncomfortable with their own skin.
They are taunted each and every single day by people
who are not comfortable with their own skin as well

Every single person is born with a different personality,

what identifies them is their cover, their appearance,

and yet our parents pressurize us to dress up according to our gender,

even though it's not as significant as we view it.

Is a man, a man if he wears dresses?

Is a woman, a woman if she has bulging muscles? 

Who are we to judge others by their appearances?

Isn't what we were taught since we were children that matters the most?

Never to judge a book by its cover,

because a burnt cover might be concealing a fantasy world that you never imagined.

Why do you call other men who aren't masculine as "girly"?

Why do you call other men who aren't masculine as "gay"?

Why do you call other men who aren't masculine as "sissy"? 

Do you feel better after making others feel terrible about themselves?

Even though the words itself should not be harmful at all!

Yet you meant it as if being a girl, a gay or a  feminine man is a crime!

Meanwhile, don't feel proud of yourselves girls,

because SOME of you do the same to men as well.

I understand that some women wish for a fairy tale ending,

they wish for a PERFECT prince that will love them eternally.

And once that dream is broken by one man, 

they start to blame every single man in the world.

If you wish to be treated equally among your peers,

start by exhibiting it yourself and voice up. 

I understand how hard it is to be alienated and looked down upon,

I'm in the same position as you are, 

but that part of us is just a small part of us,

it should not determine us entirely.

Our society is too fixated on the norms and they start to annihilate the different,

what about the people who were born with two different organs?

do you understand how THEY feel?!

Imagine living through a life being pressured to choose one gender over the other!

Or even people who do not identify themselves as their gender,

people who were born of one gender,

and have a "soul" of the other?!

How do they feel when they're being called a boy's name when they really wish to be called out as a girl?!

Before I end this, please take note,

stop making people feel horrible by calling them names

that aren't even supposed to be harmful or are actually harmful,

because you're doing yourself more harm than others!

Read/Watch the below links to gain more knowledge (lol) 

Why Men Needs Feminism? 

"Hir" Poem about trangsgendered youth

What if it was God's plan?

Several months ago, an argument rose between me and my friends about gay marriage, I was told that it is useless to try to convince a religious person that gay marriage is alright. However, if the people in the past did not even try, how did the society reach its equality between men and women, people of different statuses and different ethnics? Hopefully, by the end of this, you will think thoroughly about what is mentioned here.

Firstly, I have a question for you, what if my being gay was God's plan all along? What if Gay marriage was God's plan as well? What if a person who underwent a sex change is God's plan? And What if God wanted the person to learn to be able to embrace him/her true-self?
If you think that I'm being stupid to speak in God's behalf, then how about you? If you're the kind of person to speak about people's wrongdoing, when you're also sinning yourself, then you have no right at all, especially when this involves love and not bloodshed.

It's easily believed that passing your test or even failing is God's plan, so does death and natural disasters. However, when it comes to something that they themselves cannot experience or are told by a priest that it's a wrongdoing, then they won't think of it as a God's plan, rather a wrongdoing and it's against God.

Now, are you one to say that people who are in love are sinful when you're spreading hatred? If that is what you get out from a HOLY book, then I guess religion itself should be removed thoroughly. I am saying this, not because I am anti-religion or anything, but to show the negative interpretations people received from the bible.

Lastly, the passages and the teachings from each church/temple are different. In life, we get to learn that we cannot base our beliefs on one source of information alone, we have to gather all sources of information from different books, encyclopedia, articles and etc. A person should be able to visit each church/temple and see the differences in the teachings, not just that one church/temple where you can agree with every single thing the priest says. As human beings, we should see things from different perspectives, and not just the black and white.

Will you marry me...?

While in deep thoughts about marriage
and people's thoughts on gay marriage,
I thought of writing this,
so that people will understand more about marriage itself.

Long ago, I had a discussion about gay marriage with someone online.
Her thoughts were that gays should not be exiled from the society,
but they should NOT be allowed to get married
because it is not allowed in any religion at all.

People often say that marriage is between a man and a woman,
and if it is altered to between a man and a man or a woman and a woman,
then it will ruin the institution of marriage,
but let's see how much have we ruined the institution of marriage.

Well, we have allowed the marriage between people of different statuses.
We HAVE allowed interracial marriage.
Surprisingly, polyandry has been receiving a lot of criticism,
and child marriage is banned in most of the countries in the world.

Oh dear,
the institution of marriage is ruined!

 

 

Shouldn't marriage be about love despite who you marry?
Shouldn't marriage be about the commitment between two adults?
Even if you were to judge,
the person's values and morals are the ones to be judged,
not the person's skin colour, gender, wealth and what not!

It's really unfair to oppose marriage between two lovers just because of their body,
especially since everyone has different beliefs all over the world
And they have to be tied down just because of YOUR beliefs,
and lack of discovery over the holy book.

Now let's get back to the "institution of marriage".
Usually what is supported for this idea of marriage between a man and a woman,
is "Adam and Eve, NOT Adam and Steve",,
quite funny, actually, but ridiculous as well.

So now I am left to wonder,
how does Gay marriage ruin the institution of marriage
if the ones married are couples who are deep in love,
and not the ones who marry just for 72 days?

From my personal belief,
based on the history of the legalizing of marriage between different statuses,
and interracial marriage,
it IS possible for gay marriage to be legalized in the future.

 

 

People just need to have more knowledge about each others' differences. 

I "smoked"

Recently, since I've went into a new environment - university,
I've been joking to my old friends that I started smoking. (why not?)
Now of course, no one will be happy when they hear that,
but I've never expected to hear of the following replies.

"I don't want to talk to you anymore"
or "I can't be close with you anymore".
Now, I'm left wondering for a few days now,
are these the thoughts projected from their parents?

I would've thought the first reply would have been "why?"
or warning me that it is bad for my health,
but to be disowned by close friends because of smoking,
without even the little knowledge of how people fall into it, that could have made matters worse for a smoker.

The person could have had peer pressure,
or he was made to smoke by bullies.
His parents might have been the source of the influence
or even because of depression.

Of course, I'm not saying that smoking is the right thing to do,
but disowning a friend is equivalent to disowning a family member.
Not to mention that to get over smoking really takes strong will,
they have to go through withdrawal phase and what not.

Now, seriously, when a friend opens up to you,
and tells you these things,
it's usually the case that they trust that you will be by their sides,
even though they have issues and they might want you to help them in stopping themselves from smoking as well.

To make matters worse,
once you've rejected their honesty in opening up,
it's as if you're telling them not be honest at all,
and that might make them walk down into the pathway of destruction.

I'm not a fan of being a second-hand smoker, well, who is?
And I don't really like it when people smoke in front of me,
since it causes me to feel like choking and scream for help for bystanders,
but I'm not really one to judge others for their actions.

It's their life, it's not like they are forcing me to smoke along with them.
As long as my expression of feeling choked gets through,
I'm totally fine with it.
Or of course, IF it is possible, I could just leave the room and move to a non-smoking area.

Hey, I'm given a brain to control my actions,
the least I could do is to use it at times of needs.
Unlike SOME people who complain
and are too lazy to move their buttocks.

An additional information about me is that
contrary to the headline,
I've never smoked
and never will.

Coming Out

Tears of joy rolled down my cheeks,
as my friends tried to calm me down.
"It's Okay," they said,
looking at my most vulnerable state.

It's as though a heavy weight has just been lifted.
and the word "freedom" is starting to exist in my world.
That "hope" I've always had deep in me,
is starting to glow brighter and brighter
.

That time, we were discussing about the subliminal messages behind Disney cartoons,
A friend of mine, Vivi, later on suggested that Disney should make a movie with gay/lesbian characters.
A while later, the British girl, Helen who I caught a glimpse of back then, looked into space and said,
"you know what, I've never had a gay friend."

At that instant, I took my chance and mustered all my courage to tell them.
I looked right into her eyes, hoping that I won't entangle my tongue and said,
"I'm Gay."
Her reaction was really funny, actually, she nearly shouted it out in surprise,
not knowing that the boy who sat right beside her was actually Gay. 

The last time I came out to my Arab friends
was one amazing night.
because,
I came out to my close friends officially.

I have always tried to hint my friends that I like guys,
but I have never actually came out to them.
They were Muslims, and so,
that seemed a little impossible for them to accept me.

I love my friends,
they are like treasure and are very precious to me.
To lose any one of them
is the last thing I'll ever want.  

That night, while looking through pictures of a celebrity who announced that he is gay,
my friend "cried" "Nooooooo, well, you can have him now" or something similar to that.
I looked at her, straight into her eyes, shocked and speechless.
In my mind, I have always thought that they believed I was joking.

I questioned her again,
and they seemed totally fine with it.

The supporting words I heard from them moved my heart
and made me cry.
I was so happy, so happy...
I can't even explain those feeling in words.

"You don't have to care about other people's opinions,",
"I really respect you for being brave and being yourself",
"That's who you are"
"We don't judge people"

These people, who I call friends,
are finally a part of my life entirely.
Friends?
I guess it's more like family now.

The words "I really respect you for being brave and being yourself", still echoes in my mind <3
and days later, they actually stood up for me when I was being targeted for being Gay
even though it was just a joke. I finally feel secure and happy.

Dear parents and future parents,
what was/is the reason of your child's existence?
Was/Is it so that they can take care of you in the future?
Or was/is it so that you can let them experience what you are having?

Life is hard to define,
as well as Love.

One person's Love cannot be explained by mere words.
The lack of vocabulary and the feelings inside of you,
will never be understood by one another,
because they can only try to understand through your words.

Love, just like fear,
one other person cannot understand entirely.
At times, it can lead to mockery,
but it takes one's courage to stand up towards it.

Dear parents and future parents,
would you like to see your children in pain?
The feeling of not being able to love their beloved,
or the feeling of not being able to be accepted in one's community.

Those feelings can often lead to depression
and social anxiety,
the fear of being exiled by the people around them,
teachers, friends and family alike.

All they want is to be loved and love,
is it so hard to ask for such treasure?
A simple treasure where you can find between you and your beloved,
they want to experience it as well.

Gay,
Lesbian,
Straight,
Bisexual?

What are those terms that humans created?
It is just an easy way to classify between groups of humans.
In one word, it is just love.
And love, is everything, it should not need classifications.

Dear parents, young and old?
Would you kick your children out of home for loving someone else?
Would you teach them to hate one another just because of loving what you can't accept?
Would you still love them because they are not what you expected to be?

They should have the ability to process information themselves, because this is THEIR life.

Life is short,
and one should experience life by their own thoughts,
not negative thoughts that you have implemented,
without searching through the entire information.

Electric Chairs,
Hormone treatments,
Psychology?
All these just because you think it is not what God wanted, nor what nature desires?

Your children are crying in pain, dear parents!
Would you want the same to happen to you if you were to wear their shoes for once?
It is your responsibility to love them unconditionally,
UNCONDITIONALLY.

Your child needs you more than ever if ever that time comes,
please listen patiently and try to understand his/her feelings.
Because...

They might only have their family left to depend on...

I Believe In Change

(This post might be a little similar from before)

It is DEFINITELY difficult for ANYONE to survive in a society who shuns them.

It is DEFINITELY difficult for ANYONE to be able to smile while being mocked at,

It is DEFINITELY difficult for ANYONE to be able to stand proud 

and walk through a crowd of people who judge them and criticize their behaviour.

It is difficult indeed, and I know how much it hurts you.

I've been there before in this pair of shoes that I once wished to dispose of. 

I was mocked, laughed at and judged as well. 

All this, because THEY think it's a sin. 

Oh, how unfair it is to judge one other person entirely based on a holy book 

especially since each person has different beliefs. 

Oh how unfair it is just because of our differences that we became the target of bullying. 

I was a target as well, even though it was nothing serious, 

but it made me feel so terrible that I felt like taking my own life.

Little did I know, I had more friends who stood beside me, on-line AND real life. 

1 friend, 2 friends...3....4....5..? 

It's not a curse no more, it's more like a gift because it made me closer to my friends, 

friends who love me and who are understanding of my position. 

Back then, I felt so ashamed of myself, 

I felt so lonely and I just felt like disposing of myself because I felt so pathetic, 

all because of HIS mockery. 

 So let's review our history shall we?

What is normal in our society?
Left-handed people were once viewed as sinister,
Blacks were once slaves,
and women were treated as a second class citizen.

I have to say that there are still more that needs to be done
to remove discrimination throughout the world,
however,
if discrimination among left-handed people, blacks and women
is slowly declining,
I don't see why it can't happen to homosexuality as well. 

When I first came out, it felt like a huge weight has been lifted. 

My life and my future in this university all depended on my friends' reaction at those particular moments.
Fortunately, they were accepting and tried to understand more about me.

Since then, 

I felt SO MUCH happier and the amount of times I cry each week decreased a whole lot, 

and the laughters from the bottom of my heart became sincere. 

I am very proud of my friends who actually tried to understand more about me 

since most of the people in the society do not even bother to understand and try to judge others.

Being Gay is not a curse if you are able to accept yourself and embrace it.
Being Gay is just one part of who you are and it does not determine your personality. Being Gay is a gift, if you are able to see the bright lights instead of the dark. 

I am who I am ever since I've met you and I've never changed my sexuality. 

If that one part of me disgusts you, then it is your loss. 

The fact that I'm living in an Islamic country, it's even harder on me. 

However, thinking positively is always the best way to struggle through these problems around me. 

Hopefully, one day, I'll be able to hold hands with the one I love without the mockery of society. 

Hopefully, one day, my parents will understand and accept that I AM gay and stop being in denial.
Hopefully, one day, in the future, people will look back into history and think how pathetic it was back then. 

Be kind to one another.

Dear Mother...Dear Father...

Tears glittered down her cheeks,

during one evening as the sun setted.

Her eyes were filled with emotions,

and her hands...shaking and hesitating.

There stood a little boy,

with his tears dripping down onto the floor,

his visions...blurred,

and his legs...all red.

It's as if just a blink of an eye,

that boy turned over a new leaf. 

Memories of his past started to peep in,

as he looked through the article he received.

He wanted to cry so much,

in guilt of how he behaved,

remembering his past,

and remembering her expression.

Neither a smoker, nor a drug addict.

Neither a bully nor a blacklisted.

Neither a problematic student, nor a gangster.

He was just an average child, probably just like you.

However, 

he was glad he was punished so that he learns right from wrong.

No loving mother will ever want to hurt her child,

No loving mother will ever want to see her child cry,

No loving mother will ever leave their children astray,

No loving mother will ever teach their child to hate.

Dear mother,

Dear father,

I've grown up so much, 

starting to understand the value of each person.

Dear mother,

Dear father,

I've grown up so much,

trying to spread love and happiness.

Dear mother,

Dear father,

I've always been the way I was,

will you ever accept me...

Just the way I am?

Dear mother,

Dear father,

I've went through lots of struggles,

trying to accept myself.

Sooner or later, 

I might hurt you once more,

because I know you are in denial,

and it's depressing for you, but it's true.

Dear mother,

Dear father,

It is just a part of me,

will you ever accept me?

I don't want to see you cry ever again...

LGBT Pride Month (Embracing Your True-self)

What a total difference it is,

to be closeted or open...

I used to be depressed and suicidal just a week ago,

thinking that nearly every single person in my life

will never accept the way I am,

and thinking that they will criticize me.

A lot has happened the past week,

after peeking out of the closet.

I feel much better, even better about myself,

and I feel happier and free to do as I want.

I've recently embraced who I am...

All those struggles I've been through,

all those tears I've dropped,

seemed so meaningless when I realized that it doesn't matter at all

if I'm Gay or not.

Because that is just a part of me.

Morals, personality and attitude are what matters the most,

and I hope one day my parents will realize this,

and how exhausted I feel just because of this difference I have.

And I could feel it,

every single time the time the word "Gay", "Lesbian" or "transgender" is uttered,

they have disgusted looks on their faces,

and to them, it's wrong.

My friends used to say I don't have a sincere laughter and that I'm sad,

however, recently, I've been laughing from the deepest of my heart,

and it feels so much better to be surrounded with positivity.

I'm so thankful to my online friends who have supported me through this journey,

and I hope I can support them in any way possible as well.

Maybe many will disagree with me with what I'm about to say,

however, this is how I feel, and I think it's an important message.

I'm glad that I am gay,

because it made me more sensitive about other people's feelings,

it made me more caring,

and that one person's difference can make him/her unique,

in his or her own way.

I'm glad that I am gay,

compared to my family and maybe even my friends,

transphobia never existed within me.

To me, they are the bravest people of all,

because they are willing to embrace who they are,

despite the controversy.

I'm glad that I am gay,

because if I wasn't gay,

I would not be who I am right now,

and would not have learned all this through my journey.

Lastly,

I'm glad that I am gay,

because I have a very close friend that has helped me all through my struggles

and listened to all my problems

and I really thank her for this (So Chii).

Reach out! No Bullying!
No Sexism! No Racism! No Homophobia! No Transphobia!
No Discrimination!
(Designed by So Chii)

Fran Dreschur: "My life is all about turning negatives into positives"

Ellen Degeneres: "Be kind to one another"

And I'm trying to do the same. 

Child Abuse: Toddler sang hate song in church and is applauded

Just take 2 minutes of your life to watch this video

I know it might be impossible for some people
to make out what the kiddo is singing
so I'm going to quote the lyrics here.

I know the Bible’s right, somebody’s wrong

I know the Bible’s right, somebody’s wrong

Aint no homos going to make it to heaven

 As you watch the video,

you should notice that the audience applauded for the child.

Now I'm wondering,

is THIS what the Christians are teaching in our modern society?

is a kid singing about gays not being able to go to heaven a great thing?

Shouldn't the church be teaching KINDNESS AND LOVE?!

Shouldn't the church be teaching RESPECT EACH OTHER'S DIFFERENCES?!

They say that gay parents SHOULD NOT adopt children,

because it is NOT a healthy lifestyle,

and it will turn the children gay.

However,

how about THIS lifestyle?

Is THIS what YOU call a healthy lifestyle?

Is THIS what YOU call Christianity?

Is THIS what YOU call a perfect family?!

Meanwhile,

gays are brought up by straight parents,

and I don't see YOU complaining,

and they turn out totally fine!

I have to admit,

I'm in rage for what the adults are teaching the young minds,

(Of course, why not?!),

THIS is why bullying cases are increasing,

because YOU are teaching innocent minds about hatred.

Not Kind,

Not Respect,

Not Love,

but hatred...

I pity the children who have to be taught negativity instead of positivity.

*****

Latest news
The church that encouraged this is on a lockdown.

GREENSBURG, Ind. — An Indiana church is on lock down and its pastor has left for an undisclosed location after a video recording surfaced this week of a toddler singing an anti-gay song at the church altar, that included the lyrics, “Ain’t no homo going to make it to heaven.”

He is capable of spreading such thoughts and he is so proud of himself,
and yet when he's faced by people of the LGBT,
he chose to run away.
Not to mention that his church is on a lock down.

This shows how much of a coward he is,
and how injustice his teachings are.

If you truly believe in your beliefs,
you will not run away from it,
but stand up for it,
because once you have an opening for people to attack,
your beliefs are just mere ashes. 

Bullying: Society can change

It's a simple message for everyone.

It is said that our world is developing into a brighter future,

it is said that our life is all about making a better tomorrow,

it is said that earth is a beautiful planet,

it is said that we are all important.

However,

despite the world developing into a brighter tomorrow,

there is a huge gap between society and our developments.

Bullying has became a major controversy,

and it is worsening by the second.

People complain about society problems,

but they just sit around reasoning it's human nature.

What is the issue here?

Is it because it is human nature?

Or is it because of people's neglectful attitude? 

Being strong physically does not make you a man
However, being strong standing up for someone makes you
human

In fact,

the people who complain and reasoning it is human nature

are the problems in our society.

Because they think it is normal to have bullies everywhere,

despite the bullying cases worsening by the second.

And so they do not put in any effort at all,

they just do not care.

Now,

this is not about ranting people who do not give a damn,

but to aware that the society can be changed.

Women did not have as many rights as they used to,

black were terribly treated

and atheism can lead you to death punishment.

Moreover, homosexuality used to be known as a "disease"

Despite all those commotion over the period of time,

women are standing equally with men 

and are at times more capable than men.

Covering yourself with make-up and making yourself look beautiful
does not make you a girl.
Showing your true self makes you
human.

There are no seats where it is limited for either whites or blacks now
Both of them can enjoy each other's company.
Atheists are able to voice their opinions without getting bashed at,
and the thought of homosexuality as a "disease" is slowly fading into history.

So,
it IS possible to change the society,
it IS possible to have a better tomorrow.

However,
it just depends on your own mindset
and if you have  the courage to stand up for someone
and help them out,
people who are bullied and bullies themselves.

Hopefully in the future...
Children will be able to attend classes without being afraid.

Blue was supposed to be for boysPink was supposed to be for girls
But why care about what colours are deserved for each person,

instead, care for each person for who they are.
(Red and blue makes purple ^__^)

6 years committed relationship; boyfriend suicides

A video of two lovers who were separated even though they were committed to each other for 6 years.

I am not going to be bias here,
but most relationships do not even last this long.
They were waiting for gay marriage to be legalized after
one of them, Tom was rejected by his parents.

His father threatened to shoot him,
and his mother told him that being gay is a sin.
Moreover, they told Tom that if only he came out when he was young,
he could have been brought to a medical institute.

However,
in 1973, it was already proven that there is no evidence that
homosexuality is a mental disorder,
and as posted before,
the bible never opposed same-sex relationships.

Furthermore,
the potential risks of therapy are great as said in this post.
It can even cause depression, anxiety and self-destructive behaviour.

It's already known since long ago that therapy does not change sexuality,
nor electric chair, nor any medication at all.
Yet, people are still having the same old fashion thinking
that it actually works!

I do not understand what the parents are thinking (yes, I REALLY DO NOT understand),
allowing their children to receive so much pain,
seriously, electric chair?
They have already opened up their deepest innermost secret,
afraid of being kicked out, afraid of being alienated by society
and yet they're thrown into medication because of your prejudice thinking
and little knowledge about the bible.

Zimbabwe's President: Same-sex marriage leads to human extinction

The first impression when I read this post made me realize
how ridiculous the world can be.

As the title announces itself,
it mentioned that same-sex marriage can lead to human extinction.

After earlier remarks by UN human rights chief Navi Pillay referring to the criminalization of homosexuality in some countries, Mugabe said Zimbabwe and Africa won't recognize same-sex marriage because it leads to human "extinction."
He said male homosexuality took away women's traditional rights of being mothers.

How is it possible for same-sex marriage to lead to extinction?
There are homosexuality existing in OVER 1500 species,
and yet, they did not extinct because of homosexuality,
they extinct because of human's stupidity and ignorance.

Now, it is obvious that with the statement made,
it is giving out the message that being gay is a choice or they recognize bisexuality,
because it is impossible for the majority of the human population to be gay.

If that was the case, then since long ago,
humans would have extinct because based on history of
different countries, such as China, Japan, England etc.
You can find out that homosexuality existed since ancient times,
and in some countries, it was/is a culture.
And yet, our generation keeps on going non-stop!

And if the statement is to imply that homosexuality is spreadable,
then my parents and friends would have turned gay while I was closeted,
wouldn't it?

What I've read from the article is that
if same-sex marriage is legalized,
then gay men will take away women's rights.
(And yes, women do have disadvantage in Zimbabwe)
because "mothers were given the talent to bear children and that talent doesn't belong to men"

However, from my perspective, is it a talent that is given?
Or was it a punishment for listening to a talking serpent
who told Eve to eat the red apple from the apple tree,
even though told not to by God?

When God created Adam ... if Adam had desired a person like him it would not have made him any happier," Mugabe said.

It is said that
"if's" cannot be used in history,
it is not a science subject,
but a history subject.
and it cannot be proven because it is a past event,
and it cannot be repeated.

Furthermore, Adam DID NOT desire for a women OR a man,
God, instead made Eve FOR Adam as a partner.

It is the thought that "women are made to bear children",
that causes sex discrimination.
Women are not sex machines or birth machines,
they feel pain when bearing children,
and not to mention periods and etc.

If you, president of Zimbabwe complain that
currently, women have less rights in the society
and the ONLY THING you can do is to acknowledge
that women have the gift of bearing child,
and their rights are taken away by gay men,
why not save the time of your speech and give women the rights
that they are expected to receive?

‘Cancel homosexual superheroes immediately,’ says ‘One Million’ Moms

Earlier this week, I made a post regarding Marvel Comics wanting to make one of their character gay, and that character turned out to be North Star, who will be in a same-sex wedding with his boyfriend, Kyle.

The response from an anti-gay group, called "One Million Moms" (The facebook page was probably removed due to violations, and is now starting another fanpage which only has 12 supporters), were shocked by the announcement made.

Last year, DC Comics Co-publisher Dan DiDio said that the company would not change the sexual orientation of an existing superhero and would bring in a new one altogether. "Parents may have been able to avoid a new character since it would not be one many children have grown to admire.  

(From Paragraph 2: One Million Mom's Response)

As you can see, in my earlier post, it is mentioned that if a new character was created
JUST for the sake of him/her being gay, then they can just boycott that character altogether.
If that happens, then what is the effort in making a new character and spreading equality?

Children desire to be just like superheroes. Children mimic superhero actions and even dress up in costumes to resemble these characters as much as possible. Can you imagine little boys saying, "I want a boyfriend or husband like X-Men?" 

This is ridiculous! Why do adult gay men need comic superheroes as role models? They don't but do want to indoctrinate impressionable young minds by placing these gay characters on pedestals in a positive light. These companies are heavily influencing our youth by using children's superheroes to desensitize and brainwash them in thinking that a gay lifestyle choice is normal and desirable. As Christians, we know that homosexuality is a sin (Romans 1:26-27).

Unfortunately, children are now being exposed to homosexuality at an early age. Comic books would be one of the last places a parent would expect their child to be confronted with homosexual topics that are too complicated for them to understand. Children do not know what straight, homosexual, or coming out of the closet even means, but DC Comics and Marvel are using superheroes to confuse them on this topic to raise questions and awareness of an alternative lifestyle choice. These companies are prompting a premature discussion on sexual orientation. 

[From Part 2 (Paragraph 3): One Million Mom's Response]  

 " This is ridiculous! Why do adult gay men need comic superheroes as role models? They don't but do want to indoctrinate impressionable young minds by placing these gay characters on pedestals in a positive light. These companies are heavily influencing our youth by using children's superheroes to desensitize and brainwash them in thinking that a gay lifestyle choice is normal and desirable."

It is not gay men that needs superheroes as role models.
It's people who are prejudice, people who are homophobic, people who always stereotype,
that needs role models to bring them into the "light".


Besides that, it's BECAUSE the companies are heavily influencing the youth,
that is why they're making a stand and supporting the gay community.
And a gay lifestyle IS normal.
Are you going to tell me that a relationship between a straight couple
who are arguing each day is normal?
Are you going to say that a straight couple who do not love each other any more but are together for the sake of their children is normal?


Also, gay relationships aren't desirable at all,
WHO wants to be discriminated every second?
WHO wants to be bullied by prejudices?
WHO wants to come out openly gay in fear of being kicked out of the house?
Or in fear of having their parents not loving them any more?
Or alienated by society
Or going to a coffee shop that says "Sorry, I don't welcome gay customers."


NO ONE!


It's really hilarious when I read this,

"As Christians, we know that homosexuality is a sin (Romans 1:26-27)".

Majority of the Christians just mindlessly follow what is taught in church and do not even make researches themselves. In my previous post, the 7 verses usually used by Christians who oppose same-sex relationships are explained by a woman who has done research and translation from the original language of the bible.

Other than that, here are a few points I would like to make.

"Comic books would be one of the last places a parent would expect their child to be confronted with homosexual topics that are too complicated for them to understand." 


WHAT is so hard to explain about homosexuality?
It's as easy to explain to a child about heterosexuality.
It's just love but with the same gender, that is all!
I don't see what the big fuss is about,
the whole topic discusses that it's hard to explain to a child about homosexuality.
In fact it's the parents' own intelligence that is playing a role here,
I guess for SOME PEOPLE it's just SO HARD to explain simple things!


"Children do not know what straight, homosexual, or coming out of the closet even means, but DC Comics and Marvel are using superheroes to confuse them on this topic to raise questions and awareness of an alternative lifestyle choice."

Children DO NOT know LOTS of things,
(Cigarettes and drugs for example)but I don't see parents complaining.
It's the parents role to guide their children to positive thinking.
Straight: love between a male and a female
Homosexual: love between a male and a male/ a female and a female
Coming Out of the closet: Revealing that you're gay because the society do not accept homosexuality because they just won't try to to understand

Isn't raising awareness a good thing?
Lots of people do not know that teenagers who are gay are bullied and chose to suicide instead,
Lots of people do not know that people have to struggle each day for people's acceptance!
Lots of people do not know that there are a lot of gays and lesbians around us!
it is YOUR JOB, as a parent to tell them not to bully and to accept each other's differences!

"These companies are prompting a premature discussion on sexual orientation." 

I get the point, because there is NOTHING to discuss about heterosexuality,
there is NOTHING to discuss about straight couples divorcing,
and there is NOTHING to discuss about why the straight couples are kissing!
But there is A LOT to discuss about two men/women who are in love!

Christianity: Is homosexuality a sin? 同性恋是罪吗？

So is homosexuality a sin?

Here are the 7 verses that people usually use against gays and lesbians,
I've typed out what is said in the video for those who are lazy to watch, however,
please watch the end where she mentioned Jesus confronting with the Roman stentorian.

Adam and Eve (Genesis 2)
"It's not Adam and Steve, it's Adam and Eve"
(is what you'll usually hear when people are opposing gay rights)
God created Eve FOR Adam,
he DIDN'T SAY ALL MEN SHOULD HAVE A WOMAN.

Sodem and Gomorrah (Genesis 19)
Homosexual acts that caused the city to destroy
were acts of violence and rape,
not same-sex relationships

Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman, it's detestable (/an abomination) (Leviticus 18:22)
The original word for the words "detestable and abomination" which were translated
originally meant "do not use sex in temple cul-tic practices, THAT is an abomination to God"
Back then, people were going to the temple and having sex with temple prostitutes,
whether it be male dressed as female or male dressed as male.
And not same sex relationships.

No Israelite man or woman is to become a shrine prostitute (Deuteronomy 23:17)
Understand who it is referring to, and based on the original language,
 it is about idolatrous sex in temple worship.

For this caused God to gave them up into vile affections:
for even their women did not change the natural use into that which is against nature:
and likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another
(Romans: 1:26-27)
God is talking to people that are idolater.

"Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders not thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers will inherit the kingdom of God"
(1 Corinthians 6:9-10)
Until around 1950's, all the words "the effeminate, the soft, the perverts, the male prostitutes" somehow in the 50's all became homosexual. So if you read the bible in the 1900's, it didn't use "homosexual"

"The law is for people who are sexually immoral, or who practice homosexuality , or are slave traders, liars, promise breakers, or who do anything else that contradicts the wholesome teaching that comes from the glorious Good News entrusted to me by our Blessed God" (Timothy 1:10-11)
There are two words in the original language that were translated as "homosexual",
the actual meaning is effeminate or soft people.

So did Jesus ever talk about homosexuality? 
Jesus was confronted with same sex relationships in the bible when the Roman stentorian came and said to Jesus "will you heal my pias (male sex servant, who he was having a relationship with) for me?"
Jesus DID NOT tell them to go home and clean up the sexual relationships and when they come back and they're straight, he'll deal with them.
Instead, Jesus told him that he IS healed and he can go home.
He did  not deny their relationship.

7-Year-Old Commits Suicide. Enough is enough!

Enough is enough!
It's already sad when teenagers suicide when they have bright futures lying ahead of them.
In fact, it's sad if any suicides occur.
However, to have a 7-year-old suicide because of bullying...
It's tragic.

After reading this news, it saddened me a lot.
Bullying has gone to a whole new level again.
7-year old bullied JUST BECAUSE he's the only male of a family of 8,
not to mention in addition to his father's separation...


Does living in a family full of women mean anything?!
Does living with two female parents mean anything?!
Does living with parents of different races mean anything?!
Does all that affect your growth: Spiritually, mentally, and etc.?

Simple answer:
No.
Then what affects your children's behaviour and growth?

What is TAUGHT in the family affects your children's development.
YOU are your children's role model,
YOU have the responsibility of teaching them to be loving and kind,
as you did to your lover,
not spreading hatred just because you're opposing against people's thoughts.

Well, back to bullying,
What does this all mean?
Is our society progressing at a positive or a negative rate?
What are parents teaching their children,
and what are children thinking in their mind?

Shouldn't children be taught kindness and compassion?
Shouldn't children be taught about love?
Instead, they start bullying at the age of 7..
How pathetic can this world become?

Imagine how many children are there in this world,
even if it's 1 in a million,
it's already too much.
The suffering of parents losing a child..

Even I find it heart-breaking. 

Here is a 15 minute video of Ellen talking about bullying (different story from the one above).

Here's one thing I want to point out about the video.

Even after the bullied kid suicide, 
the bullies still remained the same,
they still continued their usual lives.

Short message from Ellen.

This is a wake-up call,
if bullying isn't controlled now,
what'll happen in the future
of our next generations?

My last few words (-cough-):
People can take out signs and everything in the bible to attack the gay and the lesbian community (bisexuals and transsexuals included),
but they won't take a stand and do it for bullying.
I've never seen people in a group holding signs and shouting "no bullying". 

I've never heard people making fun of bullies, through facebook especially.

And you know what it means..

Most religion (I'm not going to generalize) teach their children that being gay is a sin.
Most religion teach their children things before even understanding and researching themselves.
Most religion do not put a penalty on being a bully as much as being gay.

For all the Christians out there who say that being Gay is a sin,
my next post will be a post about a woman who researched deeply about the meaning behind the 7 versus that people think directs to homosexuality as being sinful.